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What would you advise to someone just diagnosed?

What was your experience? What advise do you have?
bcd1964
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34 Months Ago
Life isn't over. Get a doctor you trust. Read, ask questions and keep up to date on all meds. Have a living will and medical power of attonery, so if you can't make decisions, then someone will know your wishes. Keep them updated and copies to the one you choose to do this. Play safe at all times.
utahpozguy
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34 Months Ago
I would first find a therapist who would help you with the emotions you're going to have, and with them make a plan for your future. Make sure your therapist and doctors work together so there is no differences. Don't feel like you're alone because you're not.
saudia
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32 Months Ago
I've been living with HiV for 11 years and I would suggst that you not give up and treat life as nothing has happened. This life style is not the end of the world, don't give up. find frinds and go on with your life. .
QT_Girl
19 Months Ago
I definitely agree with that. I am 25 yrs old and have hiv and i love my doctor and counselor she is awesome i have had hiv for about 5 years now i take my meds everyday and am living an awesome life
QT_Girl
19 Months Ago
wow you are an awesome example for alot of people to follow
mobnatl
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18 Months Ago
Its all about attitude. This condition is something we are living with, not dying from. From my experiance worrying and stress is a unnecessary burden. Dont put yourself through it. Do what you have to do to take care of yourself. Find a doctor take your meds and enjoy the life you have to live
Buddha420
17 Months Ago
I found out in apr 2011 i am hiv+.. its getting harder and harder to deal with this.. I feel very alone and i am going into a depresion i have no money cause i can not work im getting no help. I really need someone to talk to but it seems no one in nyc is hiv+
stephensdaniel73
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17 Months Ago
i send messages but when they send me a message i cant read it
Buddha420
16 Months Ago
I HAVE BEEN DIAGNOSED IN APR 2011 ANDSTILL I HAVE NOT MET ANYONE THAT IS HIV+.I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I FEEL LIKE IM ONLY ONE IN NYC THAT HAS THIS DISEASE?!?!..WERE ARE ALL THE PPL IN NYC THAT IS POZ???..LOST IN BROOKLYN WISH SOMEONE WOULD HELP ME?€!!!
trace222
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13 Months Ago
Thx from now i will live life like nothing happened thx stay blessed
janise81
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13 Months Ago
don't give up something will come through if you need me Im here
trace222
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12 Months Ago
great
trace222
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12 Months Ago
great saying thx
karlos
11 Months Ago
just living with hiv like nothing happened. Find somthing to do . I like just work and help me to forget just this deasese i live with
kustsmiling
11 Months Ago
Write to me my email is marianamutebi@gmail.com
kustsmiling
10 Months Ago
Sorry with time you will grow stronger. I cried so many years now am stronger. kustsmiling.
Mahongo67
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10 Months Ago
I have been living with hiv. Poz or 5yrs now

and am just ok , life goes on. We need to be

Strong and beliving GOD onely, hiv is not the onely
Sockness wich kills no, you die with any thing so
Let's be strong



tobesweet
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9 Months Ago
YES....! Let's be strong :)
hedrick
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8 Months Ago
i made use of a spell caster, who helped me out with my virus...i was totally hopeless with the thought of killing myself to end this whole shit, before i read about this great spell caster on the local newspaper...PROHETESSJUAN@GMAIL.COM
george80k
8 Months Ago
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8 Months Ago
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8 Months Ago
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iampennyjenny
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8 Months Ago
That's true i have been for just 3 years old and I'm still doing good but i jst relocated so want new frend please add me on yahoo iampennyjenny
10GaryThroat
7 Months Ago
Take your meds everyday. I\'ve been HIV POZ since 1989 = 23 years.
I\'m undetectable and healthy and active. Medical researchers are working hard to develop new meds and someday will find a cure; Hang in there.
I know that so many of you are having a difficult time but please don\'t give up.
Storm11
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6 Months Ago
3 weeks new myself. Someone you can trust 2 talk 2. A good doc who is honest with you. Try not to waste too much time on whats gone. Its done now and its just wasted energy. Nothings changed,& everythings changed. We cant always choose what happens to us, but we can choose how 2 deal with it.
pennylover
6 Months Ago
Its not easy at first.You might think you are the only one in the situation and it feels like its end of the world.I found Support Groups very helpful.I could go there and share experiences with people who have been there before .
bobbydep
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6 Months Ago
no lets stay strong
Queen4life
5 Months Ago
I DON'T KNOW ABOUT ANYONE ELSE BUT I THINK LIVING WITH HIV IS ENOUGH DRAMA AND NOW I HAVE TO DEAL WITH HIV MEN WHO ARE FULL OF GAMES...
boopy103
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4 Months Ago
Omen to that Is there a thumbs up button in here?
Kerb
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4 Months Ago
Dont be sad about your status, Its true there's been a cure for HIV, with herbal medicines from Africa, if you're interested, contact me at munizalisa@gmail.com.
Its okay, i'm a Nurse, you can talk to me at anytime.
Kerb
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4 Months Ago
Dont be sad about your status, Its true there's been a cure for HIV, with herbal medicines from Africa, if you're interested, contact me at munizalisa@gmail.com.
Its okay, i'm a Nurse, you can talk to me at anytime.
Liyuu
3 Months Ago
I would say if u have to cry... cry and greif properly then after sometime u should convince the reality and accept urself that u r HIV poz but u not the only one out there ...then share with closest freind or family and follow postive living style I know it's not easy but do we have a choice ??
bentley7
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3 Months Ago
Stop doing drugs and booze, pot is ok. Eat lots of fruits and veggies, and excerice as often as you can. Its not the end of the world. Just live healthy, and think about it, healthy food, exercise, and clean system, PLO, Steve
garryR
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3 Months Ago
Terence higgins found before meds keeping super fit extended life. with meds it works too. Been poz 30 years, went 17 without meds. trained all my life. undetectable cd4 1150.
garryR
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3 Months Ago
And don't believe the bullshit thereis a cure in Africa. if there is ask yourself why they still have out of control hiv out there still
garryR
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3 Months Ago
why are americans so easilly taken in? they have a cure in africa! thats about the last place it will come from.
collbie
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2 Months Ago
As someone that recently found out myself i would say.... stop and take the time to sort out your feelings and please know that you are not along and i promise, it gets better... you won't hurt like this forever,the crying will end. *hugs*
Kim-lee
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7 Days Ago
Hi u guys am new her and jst looking 4 friends to talk to, I only found out abwt 3weeks ago and lst got my CD4 it was 480 eish it dasnt feel that way coz I lost a lot of wieght and am so emotionaly depressedand anxiety is killing, pls if any wld to chat jst let me knw I wld used the company.





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